Camera excitement and gym pain

So today I got the most exciting email from my mom… asking me: “do you want to start looking for the camera… the long awaited graduation present from me to you?” Eeek, really??  She’s not paying for all of it, maybe half of it… and the rest of the money will come from my savings/the dslr fund (and thanks to all you kind-hearted people that donated, I appreciate it more than you know).

No we’re not going to get into what camera I’m getting.  No more debating.  And no, I haven’t decided anything yet, I’m going to play with a friend’s camera later this week, go to the stores and pick up some different ones, see how they feel, etc.  You’ll know what I’m getting once I’ve gotten it.  I am a bit concerned about how much it will all cost.  First there’s the camera itself, the memory card, I’d like to get a bag for it (anyone know of any cute camera bags?), eventually I’d like a remote for it (actually, one of the first things I want)… what other “basics” do I need?

Sunday I didn’t have to go to the gym, having been Wednesday – Saturday.  So today was the first time I woke up and *nothing* was sore or ached.  It felt nice.  So of course, today I had to go to the gym.  But I’ve decided to try to go Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays and then do yoga on Saturdays.  Last week I think he made me go 3 days in a row because I started on a Wednesday.  I figure now I can space it out.  Plus he wasn’t around when I left (more on that in a sec) so I figured, I call the shots.

I think I’ve picked up on what bothers me about the trainer at the gym. It’s not so much having the trainer anymore, I’ve started to understand the benefits of having one.  It’s just the trainer that I ended up with is annoying.  I’ve only worked with him 3 times (and the first time he was trying to get me to sign up), and the last 2 times (including today) he acts like I’m bothering him.  I mean, take today for instance.  He told me to do cardio for 30 mins and to come find him when I’m done… and when I’m done, I’m told that he’s stepped out for a bit.  So his boss writes down what weight training I should do and off I go, and attempt to do it on my own.  Then about 10 mins into it my trainer appears, changes some things, then acts like I’ll see him after I’m done… but when I’m finished it turns out he left for his lunch break.  What the heck?  I’m tempted to try to change trainers but that might be more hassle than it’s worth.

Meanwhile cute trainer guy.  I seriously think I lose all normal social skills when I talk to him… I forget my manners and how to talk, it’s horrible.  He was talking to me and asks, “What are you doing tonight?”  (pfft, catching up on True Blood.. my Netflix dvds came in today… okay I didn’t say that, I just said “nothing much”) He continues…  “You know what I’m doing tonight? I’m going to have a margarita.”  Now, he’s talking to me as I’m doing some annoying exercise on the staircase and I’m trying to keep count of what number I’m on, trying to remember to breathe, and I’m feeling this awful pain.  So all I say is, “oh that’s cool”. And then he goes on to talk about how he has the next two days off… and then I don’t know, I think he got paged to the front or something.  And I’m stuck thinking, was he trying to invite me along?  Should I have been more enthused?

Then again… hanging out with him is one thing, I wouldn’t mind doing that.  But I don’t want to get into dating him while he works at the gym.  Having learned from my last relationship how crappy it is to work with someone you’ve broken up with, I figure attending the same gym after a breakup would be a similar effect.  So maybe it’s for the best… guess we’ll see what happens next.

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  • A tripod. Once you get your dSLR, you'll want to take some long exposure and HDR shots, and you'll really need it. :)
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  • Cute trainer was totally feeling you out on your interest to hang out. I say this situation is different than a coworker. If it didn't work out dodging him at the gym would be way easier than a coworker.

    Lame trainer. Trade him. He sounds frustrating and like he isn't there to actually help you.

    Camera! That's freaking exciting. Good luck deciding which one to get.
    .-= Just Playing Pretend´s last blog ..Bitch and Moan =-.
  • All the advice here is sound. As usual, I agree wholeheartedly with c-towner. You don't need a spare battery now, unless you are going to be going for several days without charging. I have three batteries, and rarely dip into a second one. Also, don't forget you can buy off-brand for the batteries. Buying the Canon (or Nikon) brand is going to be 3 to 4 times as pricey as an "off" brand, which will be just as good.

    Also, yeah, skip the filters. Good filters are very expensive, and cheap filters make for crappy photos.

    As far as cute camera bags, a lot of girls I know swear by the Shootsac (http://shootsac.com/).

    But yes - most important accessories are several memory cards (yes, they have different speeds, and the faster they are the more expensive they are...don't get less than 30MB/second) and GET A CARD READER. Don't plug your camera directly into your computer to download the pictures - always use the card reader. You can get them for about ten bucks on Amazon.

    Other important accessories - lens tissue and cleaner...um...actually, that's about it. Oh, and if you cannot splurge on an off-camera flash, if you rock the Lightscoop (http://www.lightscoop.com/) it will make your on-camera flash much less of a DMV-style flat look.
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  • I want to buy a new camera as well. I have this new found love for photography, and just really want to get something other than my blackberry camera.
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  • C-Towner
    Good luck on the camera! As always, ask me if you have a particular question.

    As for what to get, I would have to disagree with someone that said a spare battery is a must get first thing. You have to shoot a lot (usually in excess of 500 shots) to run down a full charge on the battery, and unless you are going to be in a place where you will take that many in one go, the spare will be largely useless. Dont get me wrong, its a great thing to have, but when pinching the pennies, every dollar counts! Also, 90% of the off-brand batteries are just as good as waaaaay cheaper.

    As for where to get camera bags, I also dont recommend getting one that has your camera brand plastered all over it. They are cool, but that bag also says "steal me!!". Lowepro makes a ton of affordable and very useful camera bags. Almost any store or camera shop should carry some Lowepro bags.

    As for other things, I say pass on any filters until you know what you want, then buy a good one. Remember that anything you put in front of your lens affects the light passing through it. Cheap filters can affect your images negatively.

    A tripod is an awesome thing to have, and borrowing your dad's might be a good thing short term, but you will want your own eventually :) Tripods are another thing you get what you pay for!

    Memory cards are dirt cheap these days, and having an extra never hurts (nor is it expensive!), especially if you lose one or go out with your camera and leave your memory card at home! I have a 4gb card I use normally, and a 1gb card I keep in my bag in case I forget the other. I have not been on any long trips where I would need to take a ton of pics without unloading the cards, so thats enough for me right now.

    Remotes are pretty cheap (about $20, depending on the brand), and you would probably prefer the IR remotes so you can trigger the shutter from far away to take selp portraits :)

    The camera bag, cards, and the remote should get you started, then you can see what the strengths/limitations of your camera are, and plan what you want to do next!

    Also, guys dont mention what they are doing to cute girls unless they want said cute girls to join them! He is probably too shy to ask, so was trying to break the ice. He is probably talking about it in his blog how he cant read you or something, lol! I agree with the person that said dont worry about what could happen!

    Okay, superlongpost again...sorry!
  • Terra
    Oh for Pete's sake--go out with him!! Stop making excuses based on what might happen if you happen to not work out. What if he is the ONE???

    Do it. Do it now. You know you want to.
  • Man you are so tough on me! Yeah, what if he's the ONE... and what if he's not?? :p
  • Bradfraser
    Great news on the dslr. My advice...go used and cheap on a 'last generation' canon with a kit lens and splurge on a decent macro lens. The 100 2.8 is a thing of beauty.
  • Oooh I definitely want a macro lens. *droools*
  • cognitivedistortion
    Is it wrong for me to laugh at how social skills go out the window when a cute boy shows up??

    Maybe you should say something next time you see him? Just let him know that you were trying to keep count but you'd like to talk to him... away from sets and reps? lol
  • Nah, I kinda laugh too. Seriously, he asked how my 4th of July went and I reply... and idiot me doesn't think to ask how his went. Seriously no social skills.

    Mmmm maybe. We'll see...
  • Heather J.
    Yay and yay!!! :)
  • Hee hee... woohoo!
  • Odd One In
    It seems that your assigned trainer is a bit of an idiot. Ditch him. Point at the cute trainer and say out loud "I want him..." and then whisper "as my trainer.
    In other news, I think the word you want to describe your new camera bag is "functional". I've found that it's quite handy to have a bag that has a zipper from both ends. Sometimes you want to get the camera out in a hurry or only have one hand to do it up, so having the advantage to pull the zipper from either end, is a great help. Obviously, something big enough that will carry your camera, the zoom, your power adapter, filters.
    Get the fastest memory card you can, it'll help when you take bursts. :)
    Perhaps you'd like to get a spare battery. I don't have one, but I've been caught out once.
    The thing is that if you get most of these things together, you can always ask "how much for the lot it I take it today". And drive the price down.
    And... you'll just have to ask the cute guy how the margaritas went!
    :)
  • LOL. And I thought about ditching him but I'm not sure how easy it would be... and I know my trainer would give me a hard time every time I saw him if I ditched him.

    Okay functional... but also cute. :p

    Memory cards have different speeds? And yeah, I've decided I definitely need a spare battery - I love having a spare, comes in handy.

    Yes, I will definitely ask him how margaritas went. I imagine the next time I'll see him will be on Friday, which is his bday.. so I can tell him happy bday too. I'm so thoughtful. Sometimes. Okay usually not.
  • Sooo excited that you're getting your DSLR! They're so much fun. I love my Nikon.

    Ditto on getting a spare battery. Nothing more annoying than getting into something and having to stop due to a dead battery.
  • Oh yes, I'll definitely need to get a spare battery... I can't believe I forgot to put that on the list. Thanks!
  • Beryl
    I <3 my camera too. If you go to a shop have them throw in a mem card! I got a 4GB card with mine for free. And the guy at the shop had an open box remote so he sold it to me for 15 bucks. I am still waiting for my custom camera bag. Wicked Stitch Designs on etsy is where I went to get it!! And I'm getting a matching strap too. ;) As for the other camera stuff I figure it will come in time. I eventually want a couple more lenses and a tripod. That's next on my list.

    As for cute trainer guy. No need to rush. If he wants to ask you out he will! See where the wind blows and where things take you. If I was working out my mind wouldn't be in cute flirty date mode either.
  • Really? Some shops just throw in a memory card? Where did you end up buying yours?

    Yeah lenses I'll want eventually, but that'll take time. I'm hoping I can borrow my dad's tripod but we'll see... he's iffy about those kinds of things.

    Ha yeah I'm all nasty and sweaty and probably stinky... and in pain! Cute trainer guy is a nice distraction but how he thinks to chat me up is beyond me!
  • Beryl
    I went to a local camera shop that my mom found. I probably paid a bit more money then if I purchased online but I felt really comfortable buying there because if anything breaks they can help with my warranty and/or repair if it's not under warranty anymore. And they offered to throw in the mem card! We were going to ask (we figured we were spending enough $$$ on the camera they better throw something in for free!!
  • Carrie
    Wahoooooo about the camera! I will tell you now that I loved the deal I got my camera. It was a bundle type package on a really well known photography site. I got a bag, memory card, card reader, UV filter, and rechargeable batter (plus the camera of course) for a really awesome price. Let me know if you want to look into it.
  • Oh wow, that is a killer deal! I'll get back to you, gotta narrow down my choices first!
  • Sounds like a pretty lame trainer. I don't know if they're expensive but I think if you're paying him you deserve better than that!

    Don't forget to get a spare battery or two! I got lucky, everyone in my family used to have cameras that took the same kind of battery as mine, and then they all upgraded so I got the 4 or 5 spares that they couldn't use anymore. That's been really convenient.

    And the cute one, that does sort of sound like he was hitting on you! I'm probably the worst person in the world and being able to read situations like that. I definitely can see how it could be awkward if you did go out and then break up...My freshman year of college I inadvertently went on a date with a guy and then (since I didn't want to date him in the first place) I didn't answer any of his calls...It wasn't a big school so sometimes I'd run into him in the dining hall and it was really awkward. That was actually worse than any of the guys I actually dated in terms of awkwardness. :-) Good luck with however it turns out!
    .-= Kira´s last blog ..Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close =-.
  • Yeah he strikes me as lame too!

    Oh yes, definitely a spare battery! My spare battery for my point & shoot has been such a relief, I'll definitely need a spare battery for a dslr. And wow, you have a lot of spares - how nice!

    I love how you said you inadvertently went on a date with a guy... I've done that before. I've also accidentally ended up dating a guy before. I'm a mess!
  • Nicolle
    That's so exciting about your camera!! I look forward to hearing what you get, though I have absolutely no knowledge when it comes to cameras, accessories, photography, etc. I think the schedule you came up with for the gym sounds great. You have to have time in between work-outs so your muscles can heal. If you're annoyed with your trainer, I would say something. I understand that he gets busy with other clients & such, but that is no reason for him to act like he's bothered by you asking questions. That's what he's there for. As far as cute trainer goes, I think he was trying to ask you out. If you decide to go out with him in the future, you have to be okay with walking in the gym & seeing him, no matter the outcome of the date.
  • I have very little knowledge about cameras either, which is why this is all so hard.. .there's so much to consider and keeping in mind that this camera will be around for a very long time... I don't want to screw it up.

    Hmmm... how should I say something to my trainer? What would I say?

    And you're right, I suppose that's why I'm being such a dork about the whole thing... is because I AM wary about walking into the gym and seeing him after a date, ya know?
  • He wants to quit tho! To me it seems like he was kinda asking you out! He's cute and he's into you! And he wants to leave the gym! So you wouldn't have to see him daily!

    I have a Canon Rebel. I like it. I don't really use it...
    .-= Heather´s last blog ..I Don't Have the Stamina of a 7 Year Old =-.
  • Yeah but he hasn't quit yet... hasn't got a job lined up yet! But it sounded like he was asking me out? Crap, I really do suck at this!
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