Comments on: Just call me Little Miss Negative

By: cognitivedistortion

cognitivedistortion — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 02:17:06 +0000

Okay. I need to post in FAVOR of this.

You have every right to be picky. You have every right not to want to date and you have every right to wait on things.

I daresay that I’d be feeling the same way if my relationship went the same way as yours… (we know what one I’m talking about).

I only tease about trainer guy and really, if he doesn’t have the balls to actually ask you to hang out then forget him. Taking some you time is great and warranted.

Enjoy your single time.

By: Just Playing Pretend

Just Playing Pretend — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 05:47:01 +0000

I tend to count relationships over before they begin too. It could be that we’re content being single like you said. It also could be that I’m a skeptic at heart. Sometimes though we have to get ballsy and try it anyway. Do whatever works for you.
Just Playing Pretend´s last blog ..Bitch and Moan

By: Lucy

Lucy — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 00:29:35 +0000

Yeah I agree with you, I saw the episode of himym too. There’s nothing wrong with being single anyway, at least you can spend time doing hobbies or seeing films you want to see etc.
Lucy´s last blog ..Song stuck in my head…

By: Odd One In

Odd One In — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 22:29:33 +0000

Well, you know my opinion on the matter, and I’m sure you’re sick of hearing it.
One thing: I find it hard to live with purposely doing something to stop one’s happiness just because what might happen.

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By: Katie

Katie — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:22:55 +0000

You’re doing crisis prevention, and that in itself is brilliant. Before getting into a relationship that could blossom, you’re making sure that all angles are covered. How many relationships end horribly where people think “If I only would have…….”

It’s great being single. I wish I had more single friends like you and I who WANT to be single and aren’t rushing any relationships. You’re awesome and when the time is right, the right opportunity will present itself to you!
Katie´s last blog ..Mexican Food = No More Foreplay

By: Bluebelle

Bluebelle — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 16:55:26 +0000

There is nothing wrong with being content being single, definitely absolutely not. In fact there’s everything right with being content. Good for you!
And you should make your own decisions about things like this – if you’ve learned from things that have happened in the past that’s a good thing!
Bluebelle´s last blog ..Photo Post

By: Henry

Henry — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 15:59:48 +0000

I say give it some time… After all, we don’t even know if he can cook yet! If the chemistry is right, it will become obvious, and besides, by then he may have moved to another gym – or you may have met Mr. Ice Cream Man… (wink..)

Besides, you don’t have anywhere to keep him right now anyway, right?

By: Jill Pilgrim

Jill Pilgrim — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 15:46:36 +0000

I don’t think that’s negative at all! I think its awesome to be content with being single. More people should think more carefully about who they date. BUT, I think I need to see a picture of cute trainer guy. You know, just so I can accurately judge the situation (and his abs, preferably).
Jill Pilgrim´s last blog ..Lobsterfest ‘09, otherwise known as, Independence Day

By: Rob

Rob — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:12:40 +0000

I can certainly understand your hesitation. I dated/married a co-worker and the times we weren’t getting along were absolute torture. I’ll never do that again if I can avoid it. The hard part for me now that I’m single again is that I might be interested in someone that works for a one of my clients (and this looks to be a possibility) which is really frowned upon. Some of the other guys have done it, but I think it would be really tough to still do work there if it didn’t work out.

As others have pointed out, you should only do what makes *you* happy. Nobody else has any stake in it. If trainer guy is someone you think you might like to get to know, then you should go for it. If not, then don’t, but that should be your choice alone.

One thing is for certain, it will work out the way it’s supposed to.