The things we do because of Carrie Bradshaw and the Sex and the City women…

Aka, “the day my feet nearly fell off”.  Or “the things we do for beauty”.  Quite possibly “the longest blog post title in the world”.

Yes, another blog post about shoes. My life is boring right now.  Maybe one day I’ll finally have enough money for my dslr (or, even better, I’ll get a job!) and I’ll be able to talk about that but for now I’m gonna complain about my poor, beat up feet.

I had never really been one to pay attention to shoes in the past.  The highlight of my life, shoe-wise, was finally getting a pair of loafers in middle school, which were mysteriously all the rage back then.  Beyond that, I always just focused on finding shoes that fit right and didn’t cause me pain – my feet are small, narrow and a bit funky (you can’t tell by looking at them) so finding comfortable shoes is difficult.  I discovered some Sketcher shoes (not all of them) that felt pretty good and I pretty much lived in them.

That is, until Sex and the City came on.  Suddenly there was a whole new world waiting for me to explore – high heels.  They came in different styles, different colors, and the women always looked fabulous wearing them – tough, fierce, powerful, sexy.   I mean, it’s not like I was about to go buy a pair of Manolo Blahniks or anything, they are hardly in my budget… but I just wanted so bad to be able to pull off similar pairs of shoes.  I’ve always fancied myself a Charlotte, I adore her style and would love to imitate it, right down to her choice of footwear, which I always thought were the most adorable.  (Sidebar: I found a pair of shoes that were totally Charlotte-like today… unfortunately they didn’t fit right. I still nearly bought them though, they were that cute.)  On a different note, I’ve always been in awe of the way Carrie seemed to be able to literally run down the street in sky high heels.  And her shoes were always amazingly colorful and outrageous, they looked like so much fun.

Unfortunately for me, I always seem to look like I’m playing dress up when I’m wearing high heels.  I don’t have a sexy walk, I look completely awkward.  Not to mention, I can’t ever seem to wear them.  I mean, I’m lucky, I have a mother that believes I should wear high heels and once a year or so, she’ll buy me a pair.  And they’ll fit okay in the store so I think “maybe this time I’ll be able to wear them”.  But the one time I do wear them, within a half hour the blisters have formed, the balls of my feet have started burning and I have to take them off.  Back to the closet they go.

This week I’ve been more than determined – I’ve been on a mission.  I bought 3 new pairs of fabulous heels over the weekend and I was NOT going to let them sit in the closet, unused. Every day I’ve been wearing them, mainly around the house or to check the mail.  But that’s the thing, wearing them around the house is fine.  It’s just when I get out into the world that I have problems.  I went to the mall Monday and ended up walking for nearly an hour straight.  After about a half hour, I was in complete pain. I attacked my feet with band-aids and went a bit easier for the next 2 days, only venturing to one store each day.  But today I thought I was ready for the big guns.  An hour at a mall proved me wrong… I had to hobble into a changing room to apply the band-aids.  8 of them.

I keep telling myself that maybe it’s like going to the gym… the first week was hard and I was sore and then after that it got better.  Maybe if I push past the pain, eventually my feet will get used to it and I’ll be able to sashay all over town, looking grownup at last, and fabulous.  Unfortunately I haven’t seen any improvement but maybe eventually… ?

Plus I figure, if the women from Sex and the City can do it… I can too.  Maybe.  Hopefully.

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  • Maybe its the type of heel that you are wearing that isn't right for your foot? You mentioned that your feet are shaped weird so it could be the type you wear? I for one can not walk comfortable in stillettos but I can run for miles in wedges. Thin heels will kill me, something thicker is better. You might want to try different heels to see if they feel better! :)
    .-= Jenny´s last blog ..Being Stalked -- Not So Fun..Especially TWICE =-.
  • Hmmm, maybe. I try to stay away from stillettos because I feel uneasy on them... I don't do the platform or wedge shoes but I do like decent thick heels. I think. Maybe?
  • I think the secret is good shoes. My soft leather heels never hurt as much as the cheaper knock-offs or firmer material'ed ones do.

    But I think it is a 'tough-it-out" kinda situation... some people can fall into them naturally, others need to break their feet in, not the shoes.

    I hope the pain subsides sooner than later!! :)
    .-= Shop Girl*´s last blog ..Shop Girl Gets in Shape [Take: Two]* =-.
  • Well, I've made sure not to buy cheap shoes... I mean, I only buy at Dillards or Macys, not anywhere else that sells them for $20 or less (learned my lesson).

    Sigh, hope my feet get used to them, and soon!
  • Ok, well you know how I feel about shoes, so welcome to our little world! Shoes are great!!!! i want some pics of the new shoes!!! xoxoxo
    .-= Meredith Liebeck´s last blog ..Right vs. Easy =-.
  • Hee hee, will take more pics, promise!
  • DaniGirl
    Like Beryl, I've given up on heels. I've heard that if you spend big bucks for really good shoes, they never hurt. (I think it was Stacey and Clinton who said that, actually, so take that for what it's worth.) Even if I found comfy heels, I'd likely get them caught in the sidewalk or be even more likely to trip over my own feet, so I've given up on the idea.
  • Yeah my mom believes in that theory too... I don't shop at cheap shoe stores anymore but I won't spend more than $60 on shoes either.

    Lol at getting them caught in the sidewalk.
  • Carol
    SATC has nothing to do with reality. Don't let it fool you.

    My work requires me to dress in a 'professional' manner, which usually means dress shoes with at least some heel. Of course, I do not have to spend hours standing or walking (and neither do the SATC characters), so it doesn't matter. But if I take my break and go shopping, or out walking 'round taking pictures, you can be damn sure my feet are going to hurt after an hour or so.

    So, enjoy the adorable heels...just revise your expectations of the comfort level!
  • Well but you don't think the real life actresses wear heels? I mean, they wear them to movie premieres, heck you sometimes see them grocery shopping in heels. Okay maybe not them, but others...
  • I never had much of an interest in shoes growing up, which is why it was ridiculously ironic that my starting to develop an interest coincided with me discovering a host of foot problems that meant there are very few shoes I can comfortably wear! With my flat feet and bad knees, once I find a pair of shoes that have just enough of a heel to stop me stomping and a backstrap to hold them onto my feet I'll pay any price. I have, I think, four pairs of "dressy" shoes but I adore them all.
    .-= last year's girl´s last blog ..i’ll take two of what you’re having; =-.
  • Aww that stinks that you have few shoes you can comfortable wear.. altho I feel your pain! Glad you could find some dressy shoes that work for you!
  • I think I'm a Charlotte too. But I'm pretty sure I couldn't walk in her shoes. I am very unstable in heels and although they look beautiful I have resigned myself to this. I guess if you're really determined though it will get better?
    .-= Bluebelle´s last blog ..A Little Book =-.
  • I'm not sure... I think it might just be wishful thinking.
  • I've always liked Charlotte best. :) I even like the name Charlotte. Like as in will probably name my first daughter that. Hehe

    I can't wear heels. I get blisters and pain and ugghhh. Cant do it. And they just make my back problems worse.

    Im perfectly content in flats though!
    .-= Ashley´s last blog ..I Piss Excellence =-.
  • Yeah love Charlotte.

    Flats do rock on occasion... I have some flats I adore. But even with the pain, I love heels.
  • Beryl
    I swore off heels long ago. They just aren't for me. I think I've decided my feet and arches just aren't shaped right to wear them. So now I shop for super cute ballet flats instead! :)
  • Awww I like ballet flats too. Sometimes they hurt the back of my foot tho, which sucks. I have two pairs right now, the red ones and a pair of navy ones, I should take a pic of sometime!
  • Aww sadness!

    It's very much like the gym. Your feet will adjust. And they'll adjust specifically for that shoe!

    You always thought you were Charlotte? I was always Carrie. Well, in my mind at least haha.

    Running in heels is actually easier than walking in them.

    I can't walk in kitten heels. I have the worst balance in them. Four inch stilettos - no problem. Weird little 1 inch kitten heels, I'm breaking my ankle. And I know it's just because I'm not used to them (and I don't want to get used to them haha).

    Take a break from them. Give your feet a chance to heal. And then after a day or two, put them back on. They'll be a lot more comfortable!

    I spent 6 hours on my feet today in 5 inch heels. I'll post a picture. At times I was literally running. Or jumping over kids. Or having kids grab on to me trying to take me down because they can't stand in skates haha. All a matter of balance and squishies :)
    .-= Heather´s last blog ..For the Record =-.
  • how is running easier than walking in heels? Okay maybe I guess it depends on the thickness of the heel?
  • I apparently seem to be the only one who can wear heels all day long and go for long walks in them.

    Consensus says: Heather is weird.

    You knew that though haha
    .-= Heather´s last blog ..For the Record =-.
  • My friend Amanda (@mandapance) can do it too. Of course, she's a shoe designer, so it's kind of a job requirement.
  • Oooh I want her job!
  • http://www.fortunedynamic.com/assets/shoes/prod...

    Those are LOVE for me. I like 5 inch heels (cause I'm just that short) but 4 will work for pink! Hahah

    http://www.fortunedynamic.com/assets/shoes/prod...

    Those are also <3

    And I love them because they are so inexpensive but last forever. And they are actually really comfy
    .-= Heather´s last blog ..For the Record =-.
  • Omg LOVE that pink pair!!! I want them!
  • I love wearing heels, but I don't wear them when I'll be walking a lot (like going to the mall). They're great around the office or church, though!
    .-= Ronnica´s last blog ..Strange Searchers Anonymous =-.
  • Yeah the mall seems to be a bit too much walking in heels for me.

    Unfortunately my job requires me being on my feet all day so wearing them to work might be a bit too much too. Sigh!
  • Carrie
    Okay, to make you feel better...as an everyday heel wearer myself (I do have 2 pairs of 3 inchers that I wear to work a lot)...I can tell you it gets better! I made the mistake of wearing a pair of new heels on the very first day of school almost 3 years ago (they were very comfy, so I didn't think anything of it). Yeah well...maybe an hour into the day I was in paaaaiiiiiin! But literally, I can wear them everyday to work now and be fine...unless it is a day where I do way more walking and standing than I usually do. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. I am addicted to heels and have a new black pair I can't wait to wear on the first day of school! I should probably start breaking them in now.

    You HAVE to go back and take a picture of the "Charlotte heels" just for me. ;)
  • Thanks for the light at the end of the tunnel, I'm hoping you're right!!

    How do you break in your shoes btw? Just by wearing them around the house?
  • Odd One In
    For once, I might not have anything to say! To which you surely say "then why the hell did you write anyway!?".
    Good point.
  • Eh I appreciate the writing either way. :p
  • I'm really torn about whether or not they'll get better--On the one hand, women seem to be able to master them, and wear them full time in any situation no sweat, (I've even seen high-heel races--those are impressive) but on the other hand, I also can't help but think they cause more problems than they're worth for everyday use--the back pain and foot and spine problems (which I am especially prone to anyway) kind of turn me off.

    Now, I do wear heels when the occasion is right--for example, if I'm going to a play (and only have to walk into the theatre and then out again after the show) but for the most part I stick to the very very small heels (I've got a great pair--there's a link to what they look like here: http://ettersmerchantile.mybisi.com/product/135... ) (Sorry I don't know how to format that) but they're nice--they add a little bit of class without a lot of pain.
    .-= Kira´s last blog ..Kira’s Life: An Update =-.
  • Yeah my back hurts a bit today and I'm wondering if wearing heels again might be the cause. Or it might be from working out the day before.

    Those shoes are nice. I might need to invest in some low heels... I seem to only have heels or flats, nothing in between.
  • Lucy
    I think your feet will get used to them. It happens every year to me when I wear flip flops - It hurts for a few days but then It's fine.
  • Maybe so... hopefully so! Today was better than the last few days. Granted, my feet were still bandaged up...
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